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Post by Kaynil on Jul 24, 2009 17:38:11 GMT -7
What is what you like the other person to have an be, physical, personality, habits, etc.
What is what you can't stand?
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Post by Dumpy on Jul 25, 2009 15:49:11 GMT -7
I really don't like anyone at the moment. So what I can't stand is... them.
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Post by Kaynil on Jul 27, 2009 3:18:12 GMT -7
^ I can relate to that. It is rarely the physic what plays the decisive role.
A turn on definitely is kindness, when they are very kind overall, those than when you first meet them you can't imagine them being angry at all, hahah, of course you later on get the chance to see they are as human as you, but I guess this still gets my point across. Also people I can relate to, when we both share something of interest and both talk about it freely really is a turn on, let me be silly and say for example "Zelda". Watching that guy from afar playing randomly some Zelda track in his Violin sure caught my attention, of course, that is more for first impressions and never as important as them being kind and empathetic.
Turn offs... People who feel know it all, people you can't state you disagree with them in something without them just accepting but instead trying to make you change your mind and give them a "you're right" kind of answer. Traditionalist people too, that think you must fit the stereotype.
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Post by Dumpy on Jul 27, 2009 19:09:49 GMT -7
^ I can relate to that. It is rarely the physic what plays the decisive role. A turn off definitely is kindness, when they are very kind overall, those than when you first meet them you can't imagine them being angry at all, hahah, of course you later on get the chance to see they are as human as you, but I guess this still gets my point across. Also people I can relate to, when we both share something of interest and both talk about it freely really is a turn on, let me be silly and say for example "Zelda". Watching that guy from afar playing randomly some Zelda track in his Violin sure caught my attention, of course, that is more for first impressions and never as important as them being kind and empathetic. Turn offs... People who feel know it all, people you can't state you disagree with them in something without them just accepting but instead trying to make you change your mind and give them a "you're right" kind of answer. Traditionalist people too, that think you must fit the stereotype. You said "turn offs" for both types...just a bit confusing XD |
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Post by Kaynil on Jul 28, 2009 18:12:38 GMT -7
I'm sucjh a grumpy person,. hahahah. Thank you for pointing it out, I'll fix it in a sec.
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Post by crystal on Jul 29, 2009 0:00:44 GMT -7
Turn-offs for me are conceited guys more than anything else. Guys who think they are all that and will treat other people like crap because of it. I noticed most girls go for those guys, while I always crush on and like that shy, sweet guy in the corner. It's stupid in my opinion, since they are just fueling those jerk's egos. I'm very attracted to strong masculinity, kindness/sweetness/sensitivity, and nerdiness. Haha, that is completely true. All the girls go for the assholes who think they are all that. A put off is a girl that acts like a boy xD, I don't mind it but if they overdo it it can become irritating. |
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Post by Kaynil on Jul 29, 2009 9:50:42 GMT -7
Interesting... tell us more... give us examples  |
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Post by Dumpy on Jul 29, 2009 16:25:29 GMT -7
A put off is a girl that acts like a boy xD, I don't mind it but if they overdo it it can become irritating. God, I know exactly what you mean, I think. I don't mind girls who play video games or do boy things. But girls who overdo it and forget they are actually girls. Never wear girl things, and don't act like a girl too... they act like emotions are bad or they act way too 'strong'. When something goes wrong, they're like "I'll be right, I'll be right" when they just look like idiots XD. Also business women, I'm not saying women aren't got at being business women, I don't care about that. I just think some women look ridiculous in a business suit, even if it's designed for a woman. God, especially when they wear ties, in any occasion, ties look bad on women. I'm very much into the girly girl, not to the extreme of a valley girl "like.... totally...like shut up!" Or wearing pink everyday and trying be a princess. But (which my wife is of course XD) a girl who isn't afraid of being a girl. But yeah, I can see how it gets irritating. |
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Post by darkexplorer on Jul 30, 2009 2:03:21 GMT -7
they act like emotions are bad or they act way too 'strong'. Uch, I hate 'tough' girls. In fact I don't really like anyone who thinks that emotions are stupid, so I really wouldn't go out with one. A turn on is obviously when a girl is affectionate, kind and thoughtful and all that, for me as well when they're smart people-wise, they know how people work. We understand each other better then. And folks, really, nobody mentioned physical things? No, they shouldn't matter but, c'mon, they do. We're human. I like to go out with people who are roughly my height, definately not taller. A decent cup-size helps  but I don't really care too much about that kind of thing. I like girls way better with their hair down rather than up, a turn off is girls with hair that grows out rather than down. My hair does that but hey, I wouldn't marry me. Figure don't matter too much but I'm more likely to fall for someone snappish if they've a good figure. Psychology is psychology. Can't really think of much else - was going to put down hair colours but then figured I like 'em all. |
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Post by crystal on Jul 30, 2009 5:33:16 GMT -7
A put off is a girl that acts like a boy xD, I don't mind it but if they overdo it it can become irritating. God, I know exactly what you mean, I think. I don't mind girls who play video games or do boy things. But girls who overdo it and forget they are actually girls. Never wear girl things, and don't act like a girl too... they act like emotions are bad or they act way too 'strong'. When something goes wrong, they're like "I'll be right, I'll be right" when they just look like idiots XD. Also business women, I'm not saying women aren't got at being business women, I don't care about that. I just think some women look ridiculous in a business suit, even if it's designed for a woman. God, especially when they wear ties, in any occasion, ties look bad on women. I'm very much into the girly girl, not to the extreme of a valley girl "like.... totally...like shut up!" Or wearing pink everyday and trying be a princess. But (which my wife is of course XD) a girl who isn't afraid of being a girl. But yeah, I can see how it gets irritating. haha yeah, that's exactly what I mean. And the ones that endlessly play sport like it's the most important thing in the world and act like boys in it. And it's like that's all they care about. I'm not saying thats bad, it's just not appealing to me. |
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