In The middle

[Kaynil]

So, have you ever been in a group of friends from which two of them (at least) get mad at each other so badly they don't want to have anything related to the other. Then they both talk to you about the other one being wrong and expects you to get out of the neutral area and side with either?

If you have, how do you deal with that?

If such a thing has never happened to you, how do you think you'd cope with it?

[kokirikid]

I'm kind of dealing with that at the moment.

I usually try not to have strong opinions with them, or agree or disagree with either. I just listen as much as I can and not talk too much.

[Woken With A Kiss]

I'm almost always one of the people fighting with one of my friend's friends rather than the person in the middle of it.

Dumpy: LOL, I know who you are talking about. XD And that's fine.

[Kaynil]

As for me, I've been in that situation and I feel I am with a group of friends, however, they haven't asked me to get a side. It still frustrating to me hear messages putting down the other side. I got the message already of what you think about it, kthx.

I usually try hard not to be involved in any side. It is like what David say, listen but not say much, I've learn the hard way, since in that stage, nothing is secret. They can take your words out of proportion and yell to the others side claiming that even you are with them because you said *insert exaggerated expression about 'their enemy'*.

I don't know how I'll react if they ask me to take a side. Probably speak all my swallow thoughts, and leave it up to them if they want to talk to me or not afterwards. It is already painful to me see the direction it is taking and I think it will be just a matter of time before things escalate even more.

I try to go with a "each to its own" approach...